I hope you all had a great weekend and a wonderful Fathers Day! Obviously by now your aware of the title of todays blog so here we go…spider webs. It’s no mystery that I’m addicted to word pictures and this one is no acceptation. What do webs do? They catch things of course. metaphorically speaking we get wrapped up in “spider webs” in life. Today is a hard day for some. Throughout life people get wrapped up in things to where they may not be able to be the best dad, friend, mom, etc. It happens to all of us at some point. However, just like real spider webs ,we are able to help that person through. As well as , make them aware of the affects those webs had on us. All in a healthy loving way. All of us make immature mistakes. When we realize what we did , It is up to us to change ourselves for the better. not for anyone else, but for ourselves. I believe the rest will work itself out for the best in the end.
I think there are also positive “spider webs”. It has been a few years since I attempted to take my own life. And through this whole process A web of awesome people has been created around me. Please let that sink in. A man who was a hairs breath away from killing himself, was completely anti-social , etc. now has this web of wonderful people around him basically because he was going to kill himself , but didn’t.. If you haven’t gotten it yet, let me clarify. If you are alone , with no hope, no feeling of belonging..Please understand that it can change and will, If you look for it. I can’t tell you how to exactly change your mind , but that’s what you have to do.It takes work and a being aware of what is causing you pain and changing it. Get away from negative things and people. Realize that you can feel Happy and that it’s not just something some dude in a blog says is real. O.K.?
Once again , Thanks guys and hit me up if you need anything. Dan